Hi,

It would make sense to cast your birth-chart and review the same, with some background to set the context. In general, Mars/Kuja in the 7th house calls for validation of Kuja Dosha or Mangal Dosha/Mangalik etc., that would make an individual prone to anger/temper issues, that would make it difficult for managing/maintaining relationships.

On the other side, Venus/Shukra as the Naisargika Kalathra-Karaka or natural signifier of spousal relationships being placed in the 7th house calls for validation of a concept called “Karaka-Bhava-Nashaya”… meaning Karakas usually destroy the significance of the Bhava. In other words, an individual has a tendency to make a mess of a blessed relationship. For example, one craves for certain traits (like beauty/looks, smarts, riches etc.) in his/her partner and is blessed with one such… but the individual will himself/herself have insecurities/complexes and will have a hard time sustaining the relationship.

Take care…

Thank you Buddy for your time. My birth details are given below. Please let me know how I can make my relationship with my husband better?

25 January 1992

15:50

New Delhi

Sujatha

First of all please understand that (Bhavas)Houses and Signs(Rasis) are different. Houses give the matters for which we are asking, ex. marriage, children etc. Signs give how the planets have strength. For analogy, if you treat a planet as a human and sign a place. Imagine a person suffering from asthama can be safe in a cool place like himalayas.

Those people who follow their method, treat signs and bhavas are same. In your case, Venus is in 6th bhava and Mars is in 7th bhava. But the sign is Sagittarius. Venus gives 6th house matters, like service, victory over enemies, while Mars gives the persons with whom you deal, may be spouse or other. Both are in Sagittarius, which is a fiery sign. Mars as a fiery planet can adjust in the fiery area and its lord is his friend. Venus is treated to be in his inimical sign. Mars is powerful to give 7th house matters, while Venus is unable to give 6th house matters like divorce or separation from spouse etc.

Rahu is in 6th house, but it is in same star and sub as 7th cusp is.  So Rahu gives 7th house result. That is good relationship with husband. The things come to pass, when their periods operate, even they are in the detrimental houses.

Now running is of Jupiter dasa-Venus bhukti from 23-5-2023 to 21-1-2026. Jupiter is the lord of 7th house (husband) in the 3rd house (negotiations). There would be negotiations or communication from your husband. Jupiter is in the star of Venus, lord of 5th house (pleasure, love) in 6th house. It means there would be difference of opinions between you both and misunderstanding crop up about your love or children.  Jupiter is in the sub Rahu in 6th house, applying to 7th house. Jupiter and Mars are in the same star and sub. Jupiter gives situations to get divorce, but there would not be as Mars is the lord of 11th house. So there would arise difference of opinions in regard to children, romance, finance, job and other matters for which Jupiter is karaka.

Venus is in the star of Ketu in 12th house (separation by you) and sub of Rahu. So you only create problems with your husband and be aloof. Ketu is also a significator of Mercury who is in 7th house. The result is there is no divorce, but separation would be there or being aloof to your husband, because Venus is the cuspal sub lord of 1st (self), 3rd (negotiations from your side), 7th (with husband), 8th (tensions, sudden events) and 9th (negotiations from husband).

To blend all these you both are very nice people and love each other. Because of small things regarding your children or love, misunderstandings cropped up. It reached to a stage for judicial separation.  This situation prevails upto 26-1-2026. In Sun bhukti from 26-1-2026 everything will be normal and live peacefully.

Good Luck

JVS Rao (KP system follower)

Hi,

From a quick review of your birth-chart, it does looks like things are stacked-up from a managing/maintaining relationship point of view – specially so, in the longer term.  Obviously, you have a very low tolerance band, with very limited patience. Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha, Mars/Kuja and Jupiter/Guru-dev are neither happy nor comfortably placed – they will be detrimental for related significances…

Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha being caught between two Krura-Graha is not a good sign either. To me (and as perceived by others), it looks like you take irrational decisions, specially when in stress/distress and on the other end of the spectrum, you become timid, tentative and indecisive, when (and for certain things… like say for your job/profession/career) you really need to be pro-active.

On the sidelines, I think you married a little late and there is something unconventional about your marriage and/or spousal relationship. In any case, it would help if you were to share birth-details of your spouse as well.

In the interim, it would help for you to tone down on your anger/temper and focus more on effective communication, setting aside egos (if any).

Take care…