Dear learned astrologers,

Requesting your valuable suggestions

Hi,

I’ve had a chance to cast both the birth-chart and observe planetary positions to understand their disposition. In my humble opinion, I’m inclined to think you have a tendency to fall in love and so, you seem to have been true to your heart in falling with love with this girl. But then, I don’t see the same from the girl’s birth-chart – other than her fascination for unconventional and/or foreign things – including life partner and marriage.

Secondly, there are strong afflictions in your birth-chart…starting with your anger and uncontrollable temper (whenever you get triggered) issues. So, I’m inclined to think you’ve not helped your cause with your outbursts (if any) on this topic.

Further, I’m inclined to think the girl has got a better option (perhaps associated with long distance travel and/or to distant land) and seem to be pursuing the same.

Take care…

Dear buddy sir,

Thank you very much for your response.

So, Are all the possibilities of reunion ruled out ? Is there any upaya which can be done ? Requesting your humble guidance

Hi,

Just so you are aware, I’ve tried responding to your query and the system errored out, with whatever I had typed being lost permanently. And, the lazy has hesitated to type repeatedly…

Anyways, below is probably the gist of my response….

I’d like to encourage you to consider the following points:

1. She does not seem to have the same or similar feelings you seem to have for her. So, I don’t necessarily observe she is in love with and committed to your feelings.

2. She seems to be in the midst of a Raja-Yoga period and probably has other options… something that might take her on a long distance travel to a distant or foreign land – although the option will invariably bring with it some issues / challenges. In some ways, her fascination for unconventional, foreign or different things might also be fueling the situation and her decisions. Further, she does not seem to be somebody who can bear with your attitude (primarily Anger / Temper and associated tantrums). It will not be easy for her to stay committed in the said relationship. So, in a way… it may perhaps be good that she seems to be bailing out before and not in the aftermath of a legally committed relationship.

3.  You have inherent and pronounced afflictions, as evident in your birth-chart.. making people hesitate and be skeptical of your ability to manage and / or maintain a healthy spousal relationship.

4. You seem to have your own set of personal / family related challenges and she seems to have her own. To me, these issues or challenges do not seem to be aligned.

Please consider the same for taking an informed decision on next steps.

Take care…