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My DOB – 22/11/2001, Time- 7:18am, Place- Gaya, Bihar. What are the marriage prospects for me? Will i marry my boyfriend? Will my family agree? The complications i might face after disclosing my relationship to my family? My boyfriend’s DOB – 06/02/1997, Time – 11:06 pm, Place – Indore, MP.
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Your Scorpio Lagna and Capricorn Moon make you intensely intuitive, deeply perceptive, and naturally cautious. Interestingly, your boyfriend shares the same Capricorn Moon, which means you two naturally connect and operate on the same emotional wavelength. However, his Libra Lagna brings a very different dynamic to the surface. The most critical placement in his chart is Rahu in the 12th House (Virgo), which strongly suggests a hidden side this can manifest as undisclosed personal matters, evasive tendencies, secret emotional habits, or even private affairs kept behind closed doors. Additionally, his 4th House in Capricorn contains a massive 5-planet stellium (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Jupiter, Venus). Having over 55% of the primary planets concentrated in a single house creates an exceptionally rare chart structure that pulls immense focus toward his domestic world, but it also causes heavy congestion, severe family friction, and controlling in-law expectations that will directly spill over into the marriage.
On your end, your 3rd House Mars-Moon conjunction in Capricorn indicates strong determination, but it often brings friction, competition, or unresolved misunderstandings with siblings if you have any. Your mother might have faced some friction in early life too some event in third year to her as you were born. Meanwhile, your 8th house Rahu means you will naturally sense when something is being hidden and will be forced to confront uncomfortable truths head-on. Furthermore, your father will definitely oppose this relationship. Your Lagna holds the Sun (1st house) while your 7th house contains Saturn, placing them in a direct mutual aspect. Since the Sun and Saturn represent opposing cosmic energies, gaining parental approval will involve heavy tension and resistance. Additionally, your Ketu in the 2nd House creates constant uncertainty, “what’s, how’s, if’s,” and unpredictable conditions regarding your family ties, speech, accumulated wealth, and financial status.
Your Navamsha (D9) chart reveals an intricate picture of your internal desires and destiny. Your D9 Lagna Lord (Jupiter) sits in the 5th house alongside Venus, showing that internally you have always romanticized relationships and possessed a deep-seated desire to be loved, making romance a primary focus from an early age. While Venus and Jupiter naturally help you attract good partners, your 5th Lord (Mars) moves to the 9th house, bringing romance into direct confrontation with the house of father, elders, and traditional belief systems. Furthermore, the Sun, Moon, and Mars all sit together in your D9 9th house, introducing heavy ego clashes and aggressive Martian energy. This layout indicates two distinct possibilities: either your parents will strongly dislike this match if you pursue a love marriage, or your spouse will clash with your family, imposing strict restrictions to limit your communication with your parental home (mayaka). In fact, an intense confrontation is very likely to trigger around the 5th year of marriage. On a deeper spiritual note, with your Jupiter placed in the 8th house in the birth chart, there is a distinct past-life blessing connected to a deceased elder or male figure. You may have occasionally experienced a subtle vision, feeling, or darshan of an old man if you have; this is a protective ancestor or spiritual figure whose subtle presence offers quiet guidance throughout your life.
Regarding the boy’s chart, his Saturn and Ketu conjunction in the 6th house points toward underlying Pitra Dosha or ancestral Karma, often linked to a history of sudden or unnatural death events within his paternal family line. He is also prone to reckless spending and lacks strong money-saving habits. His 12th House Mars (Rahu-Mars combination) forms a Manglik dynamic that brings underlying aggression and relationship turbulence not too bad but still there is some force. To balance this intense Martian force, he should regularly donate blood; otherwise, the energy tends to manifest as physical injuries or sudden blood-related stress. Rahu in the 12th house also makes him overconfident, unrealistic, and susceptible to being used or cheated by others in life regularly. He needs to exercise extreme caution with lending money or making financial commitments, as financial scandals or betrayal are genuine risks under this placement.
If you still wish to proceed with this relationship, you certainly can, but do so with complete clarity: demand total transparency regarding his personal life and finances, prepare for strong family resistance, establish firm boundaries with his domestic environment early on, and make sure all realities are acknowledged before making a binding commitment.-
Thank you so much for such detailed insight. Sir, can you please tell me if disclosing my relationship to my parents would be a good move or not? Will my brother and mother agree to this relationship, even though my father opposes? I plan on disclosing this by year end? Please suggest me what should i do?
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Hello Ayushi,
Here are a few facts as per analysis.
Your Chart:
1.Strong love potential
2.Unconventional circumstances in marriage.
3.Marriage with hurdles,delays,disputes,initial oppositions but your strong mars helps overcome all issues.
4.Relation strain is also seen and requires lot of adjustment,understanding and this is possible with
blessings of Jupiter whose Dasa you are now running.
His Horoscope:
I observe some crucial things in his horoscope.
1.If there is error of birth time in his recording say he was born 11.02 instead of 11.06 PM the whole horoscope changes . In order to cross check his birth time is it possible for you to find more details like.
1.Major dates regarding his education,career,travel
2.About his family, like father,Mother,siblings how many,or any major events in family.
3.Appearance is he is lean or medium lean,youthful,sharpfeatures, analytical in everything,
OR
Jolly,sociable,slightly heavier build,very attractive,Romantic.Or any other feature
This would help analyse his married life.Ultimately you both need to live a happy contended after
all the hurdles.
The marriage score based on your moon position is good.
More after hearing from you,meanwhile wishing you all the best.
Ray
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My boyfriend has 2 elder brothers. He is very analytical and is quite tall (around 5’10) . He is not lean. He is romantic yet many a times emotionally reserved. Also, thank you so much for looking at my chart. If you could give insights based on what i told you, it would be really helpful. Thank you so much once again.
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Yes, unfortunately, you will have to tell him at the end of the day, he is your father. Keeping this hidden isn’t a long-term solution anyway; how long can a situation like this really sit in the shadows? Indian family dynamics can bring a lot of drama and friction, so your hesitation is completely valid and understandable.
However, your plan to disclose it by the end of the year shows you are on the right track. For the practical side of how to approach the conversation smoothly, look up tips or videos online people who specialize in family dynamics often have great communication tactics for opening up about secret relationships.
Whatever happens, don’t panic. Take the step with respect, keep your composure, and trust that we don’t land in any situation by random chance it is all part of a larger divine trajectory. I hope your father and the family come around will pray for you the best. -
Hello Ayushi,
This is referring to your response regarding BFs birth details.His chart shows he is intelligent,difficulty in expressing emotions,could be having some fixed ideas,workholic who must learn to relax.His mother has a great role to play,and in addition his chart shows opposition from mother in law or your mother who will take a long time to accept.
Furthur his chart also shows disturbed married life,with misunderstandings.
So since you still have time, it is better you discuss in detail with your boy friend, about his likes dislikes,ambitions,holidays and outings he likes,sharing of jobs at home, so that you understand each other even better and see that love does not blind.
Take care,all the very best,pray
Ray
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I haven’t told my boyfriend what I’m doing with this astrology thing. I simply asked him to tell me about how his life has been.
I feel people have trouble understanding me but I can see through them very clearly. I am someone who is of high moral character owing to the fact that I could have been at way better positions in life if I ever took advantage of my privileges but I chose not to, it always felt wrong and somehow I couldn’t justify it to myself, be it advantages through connections, financial incentives or the like. I am born in a naturally affluent family with a networth of over 100 cr. I have never cheated in any of my exams even if I didn’t study and others were willing to help me, it just felt wrong. I even call out others when they oppress someone and I fight for those who have been caused injustice. I am naturally loving and obedient to my parents. Since my childhood till today, I have been called intelligent and clever by everyone but also foolish in the sense that I believe in the good of people. I strive to preserve my relationships with everyone and I am caring and kind even towards strangers. I do extensive research before buying anything or going on any trip. I am very careful and like to plan things instead of spontaneity. I am creative in the sense that I write literature and poems. In literature and movies, I inch more towards sci-fi and fantasy than any other genre. My hobbies include writing poems, playing football, playing computer games, philosophy and psychology, spending time with myself in mulling over things and helping everyone around the house. If any flaws I can pinpoint, I will say I’m lazy but I always am the first to take any responsibility if the circumstances me to stand up, so I would say I rather conserve my energy than expend it. I am also lusty and I suffer from Sexsomnia. I do respect women and ensure boundaries but naturally, I do feel lusty. I have been loved by multiple women and relationships, and I find it very easy to approach women compared to men. This is an introduction of me through my own perception. Now what others have said about me is I lack practical real world knowledge, I am overly emotional. I take offense easily. I am understanding.
Also, I am the youngest in my whole joint family so I am treated like a kid all the time by all my brothers, cousins, uncles, parents, sisters etc.
Now, regarding major events in life. when I was 1-2 years old, the area behind my right knee was slashed due to an iron attachment in bed. I bled heavily but survived. When I was 5-6, my grandma passed away and being a kid, I was laughing at one of my cousin brother aged 20 for crying while sitting on the stairs. That’s the earliest memory I have of me. I was very scientific and practical till the age of 23. I never believed in God but always respected him. I also ate non veg. This went on till I was 23, year 2021. Where in Dec 2021 I had a true supernatural experience and experienced inexplicable things. I turned religious, and dropped eating meat. I started fasting on Ekadashi including nirjala ekadashi where you go 36 hours without water. I made my whole life revolve around spirituality. This was the time I opened myself up to things I never believed in. I then learned philosophy and psychology extensively. I also mastered manipulation, seduction and hypnosis. Naturally, before this I was a shy, reserved and soft spoken individual and after this I turned bold, charming and over stepping but only with women. I ideally carried both of these versions and by this time I had settled on one girl so I was bold and charming to her but reserved and shy to strangers. This religious thing went on till oct 2025 when I was, being pious and pure, discriminated religiously because of not being a brahmin. That was when I gave up on worldly belongings and started living life on my terms but remained kind that I was. I started eating non veg again and stopped fasting. My feelings were bruised and I bore resentment towards God but I still yearned for him. Despite my deviation from worship, I still remained someone of my old character, being altruistic and kind, sometimes too much for my own benefit. I again noticed things in march 2026 and decided that the only way of living without hurting myself was to become selfish and out myself first, to give up on all my versions and assimilate them all into one. To be who I was when I am with myself and I have become that now.
Now moving onto injuries and illnesses. My first major injury was when I was 1-2 years old, that severe bleeding and cut behind the right knee. I was injured again on my left knee when I was 12, I fell hardly on my left knee while running and that knee cap is still cracked but doesn’t cause any troubles unless I strike right on top of it ( the area which feels cracked). Suffered from back pain for 3 months in 2018/19. I had plantar fasciitis in my left foot in 2024 which is fixed now but tightness remains. I broke one of my toes in feb 2025. The same year I was hospitalised for 15 days where the cause was unfound and I only suffered from fever which eventually went away, It’s suspected to be an autoimmune FUO (Fever of Unknown Origin).
Now illnesses – I have frequent gut issues like once every two months on avg. There are spermatocele and varicocele in both my testicles. I suffer from Sexsomnia which occurs only when I am stressed, anxious and exhausted. I also suffer from sinusitis every year in winters and rains.
My build – I am a strong guy and naturally athletic. I am 5’10 and weigh 120kgs. I played nationals in Weightlifting and have been pretty active in sports all my life. Others often guess my weight at 20kg less than the actual weight, likely because my bones are denser.
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