She got your attention from the moment you met and you feel on top of the world each time you are around her. You know she is everything you want in your woman and you want to get to know her better a.s.a.p. The problem is going from not knowing her at all or not knowing her that well to having her in your life as your woman. Getting her to notice you and then capturing her heart so that love and soul mating can begin can be accomplished with some smart thinking, easy steps. Here’s a look at some of them.
Charm And Humor Paves The Way
When you are fun and interesting to be around, your beloved will love being around you as well. In fact, the more you are able to make her smile and guffaw with your sparkling wit, the more she will look forward to spending time with you. Take it to the next level by showing her how charming you are, that you have what it takes to be her dream boat, the kind of lover she dreams of being with. Sweep her off her feet by complimenting her frequently, as long as the compliments come from your heart and you mean every word you speak, or else she may sense that you are faking it.
Become Her Rock
Fun and frolic are great to have in life but what is really indispensible is a friend one can depend on. The woman you are yearning to be with knows this. When you start to genuinely care about her emotional wellbeing and become her go-to person whenever worry or grief looms on her horizon, she will then rely on you for emotional support, for strength and clarity. In this way, you will become a must-have part of her life, someone she shares her joys, hopes, ambitions and worries with.
Say What You Want
Making the transition from just friends to lovers and soul mates can sometimes be difficult as your wonder woman may mentally slot you in the ‘just friends’ space. Tread carefully from the very beginning, so that you never actually fall in the bracket of “just friends’ from the very onset. This is easy to accomplish if you are clear that you find her attractive and she has what it takes to be your dream woman by stating this every now and then, again and again. Don’t let her lose sight of the fact that you view her as a potential mate.