This is one of the most frequent question many boys and girls who are in love ask me before they want to get married. According to them being in love is the only thing that is required for a happy marriage. I cannot dispute the fact that love is very important for marital happiness. Mental and physical connection is very vital for love relationship. However, it is also worth noting, that it is also a fact that maximum divorces happen in love marriages. So arises the contradiction, where on one front love is important for marriage, it is seen that maximum love marriages end in divorce. The statistics are astonishing in the western world where there is only concept of love marriage. There are no arrange marriage in western countries like in India, yet the divorce rate in US, UK is as high as 50 %. Countries like Hungry, Spain, Portugal, and Sweden have divorce rates close to 60 – 65 %.
First, in western countries, there is live in relationships. Where many couples actually do not get married. It means there is no real commitment in a love relationship and people can move in and out of the relationship at their convenience. Out of those who eventually marry 50 % will eventually end in a divorce. Also, it has been found that men are less interested in a marriage whereas women are more interested in a secure and long term relationship. The maximum divorce is seen in the 20ies and during the first 10 years of marriage.
Therefore I would like to come to the earlier question, Is kundali milan or horoscope matching necessary for love marriage.
The system of Horoscope matching or kundali Milan is a traditional Indian Vedic system of matching charts. It has been very popular earlier and even now especially when it comes to an arranged marriage. In arrange marriage the decision of marriage is based upon horoscope matching. If the horoscopes are not matching then the marriage is not considered. This system has been prevailing for thousands of years and its authenticity is remarkable. That can be judges from the fact that the divorce rate in India is just 13 per 1000 couple, compared to 500 per 1000 for US and UK.
So should we depend only on horoscope matching and leave the concept of love marriage. I don’t think that is the answer in the 21st century. I do believe that even in love marriage, horoscope matching or kundali Milan can play a very vital role. A good horoscope matching can tell you exactly what are the strength and weaknesses in your relationship. It can guide you to understand two people better and bring forward the challenges that can arise in your relationship. Every relationship will face challenges, and the power to Astrology is to know where those challenges will be and taking preemptive steps beforehand will always save the relationship from possible pitfalls.
Best Solution when kundali do not match.
You need to understand, that when we are looking at kundali Milan or Horoscope Matching, we are looking at many things, and Love is just one of those many things that we check. Horoscope matching or Kundali Milan is a detailed analysis about your Thoughts, attraction, Destiny, Sexual /physical compatibility, Friendship, Temperament, Love, Health and children.
The Indian Horoscope matching is a unique system, now followed by western readers because it is highly extensive and detailed. Many western authors have written about this system in their books. Therefore the advantages of horoscope matching even in the case of Love marriage are enormous. If the matching is good then there is nothing to worry as we are sure that marital life will be smooth and happy. However, if the horoscope matching is not good and that means there are some doshas and malefic placements of planets which will eventually create problems in the marital life of the couple. When we get to know these planets or placements that will bring challenges in the relationship we can actually do the remedies before marriage and remove the malefic effects of these planets. Many people seek help after things have got out of hand, whereas with the power of astrology, we can look forward and avoid getting things from going out of hand at the first place.
Remember that Astrology plays as a guiding tool in your life and if properly used it can help uncover many hidden facts and mysteries of our life. In our relationship, astrology can play a very important role, if we seek its guidance, we can work with the cosmic energies to improve things rather than let the energies work against us and make us suffer later in life.
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