Hi,

You are currently in the midst of 3rd & 12th lord Jupiter/Guru-dev’s Maha-Dasha (since 2018) and Antara of Ketu (started a few weeks back). Jupiter/Guru-dev is not really a benefic. He conjunct Rahu in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana. Incidentally, they participate in Sukshma Parivarthana at Nakshatra level, forming a Guru-Chandala Yoga. They’ve taken you away to a foreign country.

Antara of mischievous Ketu, I believe has instigated the separation. On my part, I wonder why you might have given your sign of approval to the divorce. If you are truly interested in saving your marriage, you might want to appeal… for it looks like there might be a possibility of patch-up if you can manage to hold-on for another year.

That said, it might not be a bad idea for you to consider sharing your husband’s birth-details to understand his situation and combined Karma.

Take care…

I want him to realise and to appeal, if i do im unsure of the consequences.
His birth date: 20 July 1992, Place: Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu, India. Time unknown.

Hi,

There you go… you have ego issues, over and beyond whatever has been shared. Just so you are aware, birth-time is critical for a complete assessment of birth-chart. Anyways, your husband seems to be at the peak of his Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra and he is experiencing unwanted stress/tension. In fact, Moon/Chandra in his birth-chart also seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere, without any support on either side of flanks…bit more of an acute case. He also seems to be a lonesome person with very few friends and limited social life, with oscillating mind/mood.

Further, he seems to be in the last phase of Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha, while in the midst of Saturn/Shani-dev’s Antara. In my personal opinion, you may want to reconsider your position and try to work things out. If not, (to me) it looks like you’ll repent/regret your decision or lack of proactive initiatives later on. Please be mindful you’ll start your Sade-Sathi phase soon after he is done with his.

Take care…

Hello,

He has threatened me that either he would d*e or k*ll me if I don’t sign it. I tried my best to save this marriage. At one point I don’t want him to get hurt so without any choice I signed it. He wrote everything and made me sign. Im praying daily to save this marriage. But if I appeal, he might go to an extreme, I dont have any family member nearby to calm him down. When I got the decision I cried and decided to e*d my life and he stopped me and said this wont survive. What should I do, when a person wants to leave, we cant hold on more.

Hi,

In your birth-chart, Sun/Ravi is the 8th lord of Randra-Sthana, placed very strongly in his Swasthana. So, it is but natural for you to wear pride on your sleeve and/or to be egoistic in nature. But then, it does not help for you to be so in the current circumstance.

In any case, it does look like the current situation is only the start of a slightly long drawn testing/trying time… for things seem to look a little challenging a couple of years down the lane.

That said, the option to bow-down and seek divine grace exists.

Take care…