Staying together and having Baby

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Name: Shalini Date and time of birth: 11:10 am, 16 September 1988 Place: Kolkata, West Bengal, India Sex: Female I got married on 13 December 2013. My husband&#8217;s DOB: 31 July 1982. Time: 21:12 (9:12 pm). Place: Kolkata, West Bengal, India Currently, I am in the USA while my husband&hellip;

Buddy · Accepted Answer

Hi,

To me it looks like you are prioritizing living in the US, over living together and/or having kids, unlike some folk who seem give higher priority to family – parents, kids, their upbringing, education etc. In case you are truly interested, it would help for you to realize both of you are putting on age with each passing day and possibly contributing to more difficulties and challenges down the line.

Please feel free to ignore whatever is not to your taste/liking and consider seeking as many alternate opinions as you would like.

Take care…

Shalini · Answer

Thanks a lot. This is really helpful. I really appreciate your kindness.

Shalini · Answer

Yes, you’re right. As a permanent resident of the USA, my primary goal is for both of us to live together here and start a family. We are both older, as we spent years building our academic careers—completing our PhDs and working in research, which naturally took some time. I’d love to hear anyone’s thoughts on our situation. That’s why I’m eager to know when my husband might be able to return to the USA with a new job, so we can start planning for a baby.

T.K.Chandrashekhar · Answer

In your husband’s chart, the 5th lord is in debilitation. Cancellation is via Venus but Venus itself is the lord of a Dagdha Rasi, Tula and is eclipsed by Rahu. The occupants of the 5th house are Mercury and Sun. Both these planets are not very useful for begetting children. Karaka for children Jupiter is in the 8th and in the Dagdha Rasi. These placements do not positively influence childbirth. Remedial measures like Jalabhisheka to Lord Shiva may help to some extent. In your chart, the 5th lord Jupiter is…

Shalini · Answer

Just wanted to share an update: things have improved at my workplace, and I’m planning to stay in this job longer than I initially thought. The earlier differences have been resolved, so I feel comfortable remaining here for now. Do you still think I might end up changing this existing job? If you have any suggestions, I’m open to them.

As for reuniting with my husband, you have previously mentioned we might join each other after July 2026. Has anything changed regarding this timeframe? He lived in the USA for 16 years before moving to Germany in March 2025 for a new job. He is currently working in Germany, while I’m in the USA. I’m wondering when he might move to the USA for a new job, so we can be together and start planning for a family.

Any comments on those above are much appreciated.

Shalini · Answer

@Navneet Khanna Ji, any comment on this?

Shalini · Answer

Thanks, @Sandeep Bansal Ji. I will follow your suggestions and definitely will do the Lord Shiva puja as suggested.

Can you please also comment on

1. When will my husband come back to the USA so we can stay together? He has been living in Germany since March 2025, and I am in the USA. So I am eager to know when he will be back in the USA and stay together.

2. Finally, any comment on my Job change/ new job. I am planning to leave my current job due to immense stress.

Sandeep Bansal · Answer

Hello mam. I checked charts of both yourself and ur husbands.

5th House of horoscope shows childbirth.

5th house of both your and your husbands chart is weak and afflicted. This has already caused delay in having child.

AS per both your charts, you must get blessings of Bhagwan Shiv to get child. Pray regularly to Bhagwan SHiv. If possible visit Shiv mandir every monday.

Do a Rudra-abhishek of Bhagwan Shiv.

When you come to INdia. PLan a trip to Jyotirlinga and ask bhagwan Shiv to bless you with child.

Take diksha of Panchakshari Mantra if possible from a Guru.

Regards.

Shalini · Answer

Thanks a lot, JVS Rao ji. Wish you a wonderful, healthy time ahead. Your kindness and help are much appreciated.

JVS Rao · Answer

Mrs. Shalini
You will leave the job after November 2025. You are under pressure in your work. You will get the news in Mar-April 2026. After 22-5-2026 (to 9-6-2026) you will get a job.
There will be reunion with your husband after 9-7-2026 and in that period only you will get another child.
Good Luck
JVS Rao (KP system follower)

Shalini · Answer

JVS Rao Ji are you back? Just wanted to touch base with you. No rush, though. Take care.

Shalini · Answer

My correct birth time is 11:10 AM. The previous one was wrong. Sorry, I was mistaken earlier.

Buddy · Answer

Hi,

Kindly let me/us know your actual birth-time. The birth-time shared here is difference from the birth-time you had previously shared in another thread.

Staying with Husband and Baby

Take care…

Shalini · Answer

No problem at all. Extremely sorry. Stay healthy stay safe JVS Rao. Thanks a lot for your kindness.

JVS Rao · Answer

one abortion should be read as one loss of baby.

JVS Rao · Answer

Mrs.Shalini
It is being difficult for me to check both the charts on laptop. I have come to Hyderabad for health check up. Once I reach my place on Wednesday I will surely answer your question.
I have gone through your husband’s chart. It seems one abortion has taken place by 2018. Anyhow, after 24-07-2025 I will answer.
Good Luck
JVS Rao (KP system follower)

Shalini · Answer

JVS Rao Ji, I look forward to hearing back from you. Thanks.

JVS Rao · Answer

Mrs. Shalini I will answer your question after 4days. Good luck JVS Rao (KP system follower).

Shalini · Answer

Jvs rao any suggestions? Looking forward to your valuable comments.