Hi,
You are slowly inching towards the fag end of Rahu Maha-Dasha. It is quite possible that you’ve seen/experienced/observed (if not done some silly things – giving you some benefit of doubt) some funky stuff and hence your queries.
That said, assuming accuracy of birth-time… the Moon/Chandra, the 7th lord of Karma-Sthana is placed in his Uccha-Sthana or sign of exaltation and aspected by Jupiter/Guru-dev. So, there is probably no need for you to worry too much there. In fact, your spouse should bring you some good luck/fortune.
Instead, it would make sense for you to focus on managing the excessive (many strongly placed) planetary influences on yourself, controlling your wavery mind, using (not misusing) inherent intelligence and channeling you anger/temper in the right areas/directions.
Take care…