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Yes, you can marry a girl with Nadi Dosha, especially if everything else in terms of your horoscope matching is good. As your score is 16 out of 36, you could be having more doshas along with a Nadi dosha. check Nadi Paad Vedha for nadi dosha cancellation. If other doshas are there, check for cancellation of those doshas as well. A Kundli score of 16/36 is slightly below average, so get a graha milan done. Nadi Dosha traditionally relates to health or progeny issues, it is important to check the birth charts in detail.
Check Nadi Paad vedha.
Check if you both have the same Rashi but different Nakshatras.
Other factors like Rajju dosha, Gana dosha, and Mangal dosha are not there.
If you’re still unsure, get a full chart analysis from a trusted astrologer before making your final decision.Marrying a Manglik girl with strong Mangal Dosha and Antya Nadi Dosha, while you’re a non-Manglik, and having low Kundli score (11/36) does raise serious astrological concerns. Mangal Dosha can cause emotional imbalance, aggression, and conflicts, especially when not matched. Antya Nadi Dosha may affect health, and progeny.
However, if love is strong, remedies and conscious efforts can help. Mangal Shanti Puja, Kumbh Vivah (if applicable), and Shiva-Parvati worship are recommended. For Nadi Dosha check Nadi Paad Vedha. So get a proper horoscope matching done.
In Vedic astrology, when a marriage is facing difficulty or heading toward divorce, we look at both the astrological causes and possible remedies (upayas) to help reduce tension and restore harmony. Below are some commonly advised remedies, based on traditional principles.
Astrological Remedies to Help Prevent Divorce
1. Strengthen the 7th House and Its Lord
The 7th house governs marriage. If it or its lord is weak or afflicted, remedies can help.
Chanting mantras for the 7th house lord (e.g., “Om Shukraya Namaha” for Venus) daily can help.
Offer white sweets to your spouse or donate on Fridays if Venus is afflicted.2. Remedies for Planetary Doshas
If there’s Mangal Dosha, perform Mangal Shanti Pooja.If Rahu or Shani is creating confusion or coldness, consider remedies like:
Lighting a mustard oil lamp under a Peepal tree on Saturdays.
Chanting “Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya” daily for peace and clarity.3. Durga and Shiva Parvati Pooja
Worship Goddess Durga or Shiva-Parvati to restore marital harmony.
Recite “Swayamvara Parvati Mantra” for attracting divine blessings in marriage:“Om Hreem Yoginim Yogini Yogeswari Yoga Bhayankari Sakala Sthavara Jangamasya Mukha Hridayam Mama Vasam Aakarsha Akarshaya Namaha”
(Recite 108 times daily with devotion.)
4. Observe Fasts
Monday fasts (Somvar Vrat) for women and Friday fasts for Venus-related issues.
Pray to Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati for marital unity.Looking at your question, I can say that most astrologers look only at Ashtkoot guna milan and do not dig deep into astrology charts, and that is why despite a very good ashtkoot guna milan score, problems in marriage do take place.
Do note that Ashtkoot Guna Milan is just the First Step
Understanding Ashtkoot Guna Milan:
The 36-point system (Ashtakoota Milan) mainly assesses compatibility from Moon. Depending upon the placement of the Moon in the birth chart. I mean rashi and Nakshatra, this system calculates a score, but do remember this is not complete horoscope matching.
Individual Horoscopes Matter More
While Guna Milan gives a quick compatibility snapshot, each person’s birth chart must be examined in detail: For example, a person’s individual chart could have divorce yog, seperation yog, that has not been checked in Ashtkoot guna milan. Also, an individual could be running 6th lord dasha or 8th dasha or 12th dasha or dasha of a planet placed in the malefic houses. So in this case, the divorce yog may not be there, but dasha of 6th, 8th and 12th could impact marriage, leading to divorceStudying of Individual chart can show signs of marital challenges, separation, or Doshams (like Mangal Dosha), Rahu dosha, Naag dosha etc? Weak 7th house, lord and Karka, which will not be revealed in guna milan.
Your 28/36 score shows the match had strong potential. But if deeper planetary positions, dasha periods, 7th house and lord and dosha in an individual chart aren’t favorable, challenges on the marital life could still arise. So it is very important to get charts matched before marriage from a good astrologer and not from online app, as they do not provide complete horoscope matching. A complete personal marriage chart analysis would offer more clarity on your relationship.
In Vedic astrology, Nadi Dosha is one of the most critical factors in Kundali matching for marriage. Nadi is one of the eight aspects (Ashtakoota) used to assess marriage compatibility, and it carries the highest weight — 8 out of 36 points. When both partners have the same Nadi, it forms a Nadi Dosha, which is considered inauspicious for marital life.
There are three types of Nadi: Aadi (Vata), Madhya (Pitta), and Antya (Kapha). Each Nadi is associated with different elements of the body and mind. Among these, Madhya Nadi Dosha is often considered the most dangerous from a health and progeny perspective as it belongs to fire or Agni tatva, and a mismatch here is believed to cause serious health issues, lack of physical compatibility, and complications related to childbirth.
However, the intensity and impact of Nadi Dosha vary based on the entire chart. If strong factors like same Rashi lord, good Bhakoot, Rajju, and Nakshatra compatibility exist, the dosha can be considered weakened. Also, certain exceptions and cancellations (called Nadi Dosha Pariharas) exist — for example, if both partners belong to different Nakshatras but same Nadi, or if the bride and groom have the same Rashi lord or strong Jupiter and Venus placements. Also checking for Nadi Paad vedha, if no vedha then nadi dosha is considered canceled.
You should remember that Nadi dosha is very important due to its connection with health and fertility, decisions should never be based on Nadi alone. A complete horoscope analysis by a learned astrologer is essential before drawing any conclusion.
There is no such thing as Madhya Nadi Dosha getting nullified in this case — the Dosha still exists. However, you mentioned that your Kundali match score is 23 out of 36, which indicates that many aspects are matching in ashtkoot guna milan. You need to check that if your nadi paad vedha is not there then marriage can be considered.
Nadi dosha can create many problems in marital life. So it is very important to check if Nadi dosha cancellation is taking place or not. There are certainly solutions for nadi dosha. You need to check for Nadi Paad vedha. If no vedha, then you can be happy as your Nadi dosha is getting cancelled and there are no problems in getting married.
If your overall compatibility is not strong, which means that guna milan score is less, it is strongly recommended that you do Graha Milan (Matching of other planets) and 7th house analysis. You can read more about Graha milan and why it is done on astrologymag.com.
If your Nadi dosha does not cancel, then you need to do some remedy. You should perform Nadi Dosha Nivaran Puja and Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra (108 times) before solemnizing.
As what you are suggesting requires a lot of time, you can always look at paid services for getting more details.
If you are having Bhakoot dosha, Gana Dosha and Nadi dosha. No astrologer will suggest marriage. They will say that a minimum 18 guna milan should be there out of 36 for you to marry. However, if your dosha get cancel, then you can add that score to your guna milan. For example, your Nadi dosha gets cancel and Bhakoot dosha also gets cancel, then you can add 8 point of Nadi and 7 points of Bhakoot to 12 (Initial guna milan score) which makes your total score to 27. Now after dosha cancellation, 27 becomes your final score out of 36, which is good. That is how marriage astrology work when guna milan score is less.
Also you should do the graha milan, which is matching of all the planets of your birth chart. Remember that Guna milan is just a calculation done from the Moon. The placement of Moon in which rashi, nakshatra and a calculation is done that tells you how much Ashtkoot score you are getting.
However in the birth chart, we have total 9 planets, Sun, Venus, Jupiter, Mercury, Mars etc etc. Now what are those planets indicating we never checked. Last but not the least we also did not check the 7th house and 7th lord and Karka. So Get your Graha milan done more than anything else.
So if the dosha in Guna milan get cancel. Your grah milan is good. Just fix a wedding date and enjoy your life journey with your soulmate.
Yes, astrology can help overcome procrastination by identifying planetary imbalances that affect motivation, focus, and discipline. Procrastination often arises from a weak Mercury (poor concentration), afflicted Saturn (delays, fear of failure), low Mars energy (lack of drive), or a disturbed Moon (emotional overwhelm, indecisiveness).
Remedies For Procrastination:
For Mercury: Chant Om Budhaya Namah on Wednesdays, wear green, and stay mentally active.
For Saturn: Light a sesame oil lamp on Saturdays, chant Om Sham Shanicharaya Namah, and practice structured routines.
For Mars: Chant Om Mangalaya Namah, exercise daily, and wear red (if suitable).
For Moon: Meditate, chant Om Chandraya Namah, and stay emotionally balanced.
A detailed birth chart analysis can reveal which planets need support and suggest specific remedies like mantras, gemstones, or fasts. With consistent effort and astrological alignment, it’s very possible to regain focus, willpower, and overcome procrastination.
I’m truly sorry you’re facing this pain. Cheating deeply wounds the heart. Many times a birth chart mismatch like bad Guna Milan, Manglik Dosha, or 7th house afflictions—can create emotional distance and misunderstanding. It certainly brings marital challenges. As per your birth chart we see that you have Mars in the 8th house making you strong manglik. Rahu in the 4th house of your natal chart disturbs family life. 7th lord Venus is debilitated in the D9 chart. You are passing through Rahu period, and Jupiter sub period. The possibility of separation is very strong in your chart till September 2029.
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Vedic Astrologer
