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Graha Maitri – Checks Mental compatibility in relationship

Graha Maitri – Checks Mental compatibility in relationship

The Janma Rashi which is your moon sign is ruled by a planet, it is known as Rashi lord. If there is friendship between the lords of the Janma Rasi of the Girl horoscope and the Boys horoscope, then harmony in the relationship is said to prevail. If there is no friendship then there will be strong ego clashes, arguments, strong differences of opinion and frequent conflicts.

Graha Maitri koot matching is a very important part of Guna Milan or Kundali Milan. It is the 4th most important Koot in ashtkoot guna Milan as it has 5 score, just below Gana Koot, Bhakoot Koot and Nadi Koot.

What is Graha Maitri Dosha –

Graha Maitri Dosha is formed when the Graha maitri score is zero in Guna Milan. You need to note that Graha Maitri is a good indicator to match the mental compatibility of the couple. As we are referring to the moon, which is the significator of mind, here we are talking about mental compatibility of the partners in the relationship. A dosha in the Graha Maitri indicates no compatibility on the mental level.

Many times many young couple who visit me say that they feel a very strong compatibility. I need to remind them that there are two types of compatibility, one is the physical compatibility and the other is the mental compatibility. If there is only a physical compatibility then surely it will fail if it is not backed and supported with mental compatibility.

You also need to remember that If there are other doshas in horoscope matching  like Gana Dosha and Bhakoot dosha then marriage should not be considered unless there is strong Grah Milan and strong 7th house of the natives.

In the example given below we see that the rashi of the boy is Gemini and the girl rashi is Taurus. Mercury which is the lord of Gemini and Venus which is the lord of Taurus are friends we see that there is full Graha Maitri Score.  In this case the Horoscope matching will get 5 score out of maximum 5 in Graha maitri in Guna Milan.

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The Score of Graha Maitri is based as below.

  1. If both rashi are friends as in above example then full score – 5 Points
  2. If one rashi is friendly and other neutral – 4 Points
  3. If both rashi are neutral – 3 points
  4. If one rashi is friend and other inimical – 2 Points
  5. If one rashi is neutral and other enemy or both are inimical – 0 Points

Here are Some Example of Grah Maitri Matching –

Rashi of boy is Gemini and the girl is Virgo – 5 Points Full Graha Maitri Score

Rashi of boy is Taurus and girl is Aries – 1 point out of 5

Rashi of boy is Pisces and girl is Virgo – 0.5 out of 5

Rashi of boy is Aries and girl is Sagittarius – 0 out of 5

If there is Graha Maitri Dosha in the horoscope Matching, then you should get a detailed Guna and Graha milan done to be sure that there is happiness and bliss in your marital life. There is no point in marriage if there will be problems and no harmony in the relationship.


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About Navneet Khanna

Astrologer Navneet Khanna, is a former World Bank & SIDA consultant, he has held many prestigious projects in India and Africa before settling down in his native place, near Chandigarh and following his passion in Vedic Astrology. Navneet is very scientific and logical in his Predictions. He reasons his predictions because of which he has a worldwide following and people from many countries solve their problems with his help. He is an expert in Marriage and Love Relationship. In Marriage Matching he does analysis of Guna Milan and also Grah Milan (Matching of the Planets) and will tell you effects and remedies of Nadi Dosha, Bhakoot Dosha & Gana Dosha if present. He is an Expert Astrologer on Many Indian & Foreign Websites like and a frequent writer for many national and international websites and magazines. Navneet believes that Vedic Astrology is a vast subject, it is an ocean of knowledge and wisdom. It is simply up to the individual to jump into the ocean and extract the pearls. With his vast experience on occult subjects he has been associated with leading astrologers in India to promote astrology. Navneet Khanna believes that the energy and inspiration behind him is the Blessings of the Almighty. You may contact him on his number 0091-9417884861 .


  1. Respected Sir,
    Greetings for the day!
    I am looking forward to get married and its an arrange marriage, A very good girl from good family is the proposal that me an my family are looking for My Birth details are 18th April 1986 Time : 20.30 , place : Amravati Maharashtra. where as Girls details are 5th June 1988 Time: 14.12, Place: Firozabad Uttar Pradesh.

    1. Sir, in Online Kundali Milan it shows 28 Gunas are matching all Gunas are going well and appears with Graha Maitri Dosha, will it be good to go ahead, do other good milan from ashtakoot minimise this Maitri DOsha.

    2. When matched from panditji he says 16 gunas are matching and not advised to proceed.

    Please give me your guidance.

    My email :

    • In your horoscope matching 28 Guna match. However the Graha Maitri score is very less, which is not good. As it indicates strong likes and dislikes, it also indicates ego problems between the couple. A String Guna milan is only half of the horoscope matching done. You should get a Gun and Grah milan done . Grah milan which is matching of the planets is equally important to gauge marital happiness. You can read more about Grah milan on this website.


      Navneet Khanna

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